A woman may be afraid of having sex for the first time, so it is up to her partner to ease her stress and introduce her to the joys of sex – with some great positions.
If your new partner is somebody you have strong feelings for, then chances are things are soon heading towards sex. But she has confided to you that she is a virgin, so you are now worried about how to deal with the situation. On the one hand, her first time with you will set the tone for all her future sexual experiences, so you need to make it memorable. On the other hand, you don’t want to hurt her and put her off the idea of sex altogether.
Relax – we’ve got the best sex positions for you to try with a woman who’s never had sex before:
* Start with the classic missionary. She may be excited and terrified in equal measure, so start off simple. It is the best sex position to start with if your partner has never had sex before. It allows you to hold her and kiss her till she is comfortable enough for penetration. Also, you can control the angle of penetration and go in really slowly if she experiences pain.
* Raised hips to get better depth. Once she is comfortable with your penis inside her, stay in the missionary position and raise her hips by gently lifting her buttocks. Encourage her to twine her legs around your hips so that you get better control over the depth of penetration. Go slowly – increased depth might mean some amount of pain for her, so ask her if she is comfortable with the position before you proceed.
* Fold her legs at the knees and sit up. Have her lie down on her back, and lube her up first. Once she is comfortable with you entering her, ask her to fold her legs at the knees. Hold her legs in position by placing your hands on her knees gently – this way, her vagina is completely exposed and offers a good angle of penetration. Sit in front of her on her knees with your penis against her body, and enter her slowly. Make sure there is lube on the outside of your condom as well.
* Side by side with kissing. If she is terrified of the idea of your penis entering her, soothe her with lots of foreplay. Touch her all over her body, and caress and kiss her till she is ready for penetration. Now gently slide your penis inside her – let her put her leg over your hip to create space for you – and thrust slowly to open her vaginal canal. This is the best sex position for sweet, gentle sex that causes less pain to her.
